Disclaimer at the end of the post I will post a picture of Jackson’s arm….you will have to scroll down to see it to avoid shocking those that don’t want to see it!! So beware!

Since so many of you are asking about Jackson’s accident I thought I would post the story. He was across the street with Seth delivering cooking to the neighbors while I cooked dinner. It all started with these cookies…

He played for a few minutes with the neighbor and when he came down the stairs to head for the front door he fell forward off of the stairs and landed on his arm. Seth left Jackson with the neighbor to run to get me and the car. I ran over to get Jackson…who wasn’t crying but was in shock. Seth threw a cup of water on our freshly lit fire in the fireplace, turned off the burners from my cooking and grabbed Owen.  I ran across the street with Jackson and held him in the front seat trying to brace his arm as we drove.

We went to the Reston hospital ER because it was closest and we weren’t sure how severe the damage was. Looking back had I understood more I would have taken him the 30 min to Fairfax where they have a pediatric ER. Anyhow, we were helped quickly. Jackson was hooked up to morphine and fluids on arrival and sent for x-rays within the first few mins. It broke both bones in his left arm and it remained in what they called a “stair step” or 90 angle until they re-straightened (reduced it) it. The nurses were great and made sure he was comfortable. Seth went home with Owen and met my brother who stayed so Seth could meet me back at the hospital. 3 hours after arrival the pediatric attending told me that the ortho at Reston wasn’t responding to calls and quite honestly wouldn’t be comfortable fixing a pediatric break anyways so they sent us via ambulance to Fairfax Hospital. It was a long 4 hours of looking at the break. Luckily Jackson remained in shock and wasn’t processing much of it. The morphine helped!

The ambulance crew and greeting staff at Fairfax were great and got things rolling quickly. The doctor came in almost immediately and the ortho team arrived within 20 mins or so. They looked at the x-rays and got Jackson sedated so that they could fix his arm. He now has a temporary cast. One that allows swelling that they will actually just add the extra layer of hard cast to. The nurse pulled in a wheel chair for us to take Jackson to the car. He was still slightly sedated and looked at me with heart broken eyes, he said ” Mom, will I have to be in the wheelchair the rest of my life”. Poor guy, couldn’t remember if he broke his arm or leg.

We left home at 6 pm and arrived back home at 1 AM. Owen, who had slept soundly through the night woke up at 5:20 AM!

Jackson is going to be in the cast for 6-8 weeks once it is on. Basically I told him we hope it’s off when Santa comes just to give him something to look forward to.  His first question as he came out of sedation when his words weren’t even clear yet was if he could still be on the basketball team with his buddy. There will probably more tears in the coming weeks then there were last night. He remained in shock much of the evening and honestly did not cry until he came out of sedation and was disoriented. It will take a lot of adjusting to this new way of moving and lifting a cast that honestly is about half his body weight. He is such a string bean already.

My prayer requests at this time are that he would adjust back to school with his limitations at the moment. I had him home Wed and Thurs but Friday he managed most of the day at school. He was welcomed back with so much love from his class and felt so taken care of. I think once the cast signing and celebrity wear off he might have a hard time not being able to be active. The pain is lessening by the day. The first days were roughest but I think it was more from adjusting to it all (sort of a grieving time that I hadn’t totally expected) and the morphine wearing off. He is still having tough times when he realizes a new activity he can’t do. Yesterday it was not being able to ride his bike. Other than those tough times he is making do and joining in. Who says you can’t be the drummer or rake leaves with one arm!

Pray for me as I juggle Owen and try to teach him how to be gentle. The hard cast will go on on Wed which will reduce risk for the healing bones.

Pray for rest. For all of us! The first nights were very rough, they are improving. Jackson still needs pain medicine in the night so we are setting an alarm, feels a bit like having a baby again.

Pray that my nerves will regroup! So far we are doing well but I realized Tues night at the hospital that I was kind of coming down off the storm hype when this happened and I have just felt wiped out this week with the addition of the arm drama. I am trying not to be anxious about every little thing the boys do but I will say that stairs are still scary to me

So that’s the story. There are so many random things that I am thankful for. Had Sandy not blown through here Seth would not have been home to help me. Because of Sandy we had to postpone putting up a swing set for the boys. I was so bummed and frustrated about that last week but I cannot tell you how relieved I am to not have to restrict Jackson from a new swing set. I am so thankful Seth remembered to put out the fire in the fireplace and so thankful that my brother was able to be with Owen so he could sleep and Seth could assist me at the hospital.

Disclaimer: look at the below picture at your own risk. I did a thumbnail size, feel free to click on it to enlarge it if you are a glutton for punishment.