Happy Father’s Day to my dad who is celebrating in Virginia today!  Looking forward to spending time with my dad in less than 3 weeks!  I am hoping he gets to teach our boys how to fish! Fun times to come.

This morning poor Seth’s Father’s day started WAY too early. As in 4:45 AM too early. Our youngest is giving us yet another run for our money on sleep. He did not spare Seth the agony on Father’s Day! Seth’s fathering skills are being put to the test in these days of transition with our boys. I can attest to his loving patience with them. Seth doesn’t hesitate to jump in with our boys and gives them 100% of his energy when he is with them!  You are a wonderful daddy, Seth!

We spent the morning and early afternoon taking a hike with friends and roasting hotdogs over a fire for lunch. It was so nice to get out and have some fresh air!  The visibility wasn’t great for the mountains but the view of the valleys and rolling hills was gorgeous!

{Just so you know how very tired we are Seth told me this morning that he grabbed the matches, by that he literally grabbed a few matches WITHOUT the box. So, we scrounged for a few minutes and eventually found a lady who happened to have a book of matches on her. Whew. Disaster averted. Yesterday I found the sunscreen in the fridge}

Going to miss the beautiful scenery and our dear friends!

Our friends Allison and Andrew Redmon are  about to move to Saudi Arabia in a couple of months and asked for some packing tips! (You can follow their adventure here.) I felt a little silly when Allison asked for advice but I realized after 5 moves in 5 1/2 yrs it’s probably legit to give some ideas. When she asked I couldn’t even think clearly with my house full of packers. But now the dust has settled, quite literally.  After this bit I am going to take a long break from even thinking about packing.  {I broke this into 3 posts so you don’t fall asleep while reading}

I sat down today to think through what I would even recommend and I thought I would share it with all of you as well….

*Big disclaimer, many of you have done this a million more times than us. I don’t in any way feel like an expert so feel free to chime in. I think we all find our packing groove and what works for our families but I always love new ideas to make it easier. And…obviously these recs are assuming you have a shipping allowance and that you aren’t just taking the essentials in suitcases. Coming from a missionary family background I am stunned every time our stuff gets moved around the world. It is no doubt a perk of the job, but not one we take for granted.  So, if you have some space and weight and need some ideas, read on. If not, make friends with an Embassy family and beg them to share their peanut butter on occasion!*

Here’s kind of our system when we approach packout:

~START EARLY, if you work gradually the days before packing won’t feel so stressful! Our first move we were both up until 2 AM the night before finishing getting everything sorted into “DC”, “Storage”, “Overseas”, “UAB”, etc. It was so much work but we should have started earlier (the fact that we had a month to pack and be gone while working our last weeks gave us a time crunch too)

~Give stuff away!! Go through your house with an empty laundry basket or box and fill it with all of the things you don’t use or don’t need. You will accumulate a lot and it makes it so much easier to do a quick purge before you begin thinking about packing.

~Pick a room for each category “UAB”, Storage, Suitcases, etc. That way you aren’t have to keep track constantly and the packers know exactly where everything goes. Each time you see something that goes in that category drop it off in the designated room. I find this saves time in the end scrambling for what shouldn’t be packed where.

~Wrap all linens, clothes, pillows, etc in plastic bags!  You will need Ziplock bags!!! Like a million of them. A few moves back we discovered that ziplock makes giant bags. *ziplock isn’t paying me to advertise for them, we just wanted to recommend them based on our own experience*. The giant bags have been perfect for linens, clothes…you name it, it will fit. We also use the small bags to double wrap toiletries, pantry items and other loose things. When you arrive then you also have your supply of bags to use. If your stuff is just put into boxes it will arrive smelling like cardboard. And some things like quilts and bedding are tough to get smelling really fresh again, assuming your things are going by boat like ours, that is 2 months or so of box smell!

~Categorize! We typically gather all of the linens to pack together, all of the bathroom stuff, etc.  I find we rarely go somewhere with the same number of rooms, etc so it is easier having everything together instead of getting 4 boxes of towels, linens.

~Double bag spices and pantry items. Put the first bag in upside down so that the opening faces the bottom of the first bag. That way if it pops open it is much harder to makes its way up to the opening.

~Take pictures of each room to get a visual list of your belongings for insurance purposes if needed.

~On packing day pick up donuts for the packers!! Or something to inspire them! It never hurts. This time around Seth took around ice cream bars in the afternoon to perk everyone up. And on another day Jackson and I had made some cookies so he took those around and offered them to the packers.

~Realize that things are just things and that passing each and every of your earthly belongings to men tossing boxes can be a bit unnerving. (I often find though that when the truck drives away I am so relieved to no longer be responsible!)

~Lock your kids in the atrium to keep them safe during the loading…

kidding, even when they are with their dad and given snacks and capri suns they will realize your intent to keep them out and will bang and shriek on the glass forcing you to let them in. Never hurts to try!

~Go out for dinner to celebrate surviving!! Or at least have a fun drink.